Happy Spring! Sharon & Bob Sing! And March Miracle #727!

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Dear Friends and Family,
Can you believe that it's the last weekend in March? Bob is enjoying March Madness and I'm trying to avoid working on taxes (which used to be Bob's job). I used to go garden and find projects while he worked on them and now I can't wait until he can help me with this tedious task.

Bob is getting stronger and more engaged every day. Shadi has him folding clothes, clearing the table, and picking up after himself. Next, he'll be unloading and loading the dishwasher and washing machine like he used to. I like it! I really like when Toddi wants to kiss him, and kiss him, and kiss him, and kiss him. He's getting better at saying, "No Toddi" but his voice is very soft so I don't think she takes him seriously. She loves her some Bob!

In the last blog, I told you that Shadi and Bill donated the very expensive computerized Walk Aide that sends electric stimuli to his leg muscles so that he picks up his knee and foot when he walks. Well, the Loma Linda business office went to bat for us and guess what? They got our insurance to pay for it after all! YEAH! Miracle after miracle happens! So I asked Bill and Shadi if they'd like to donate to my retirement wardrobe foundation and they said NOT! By the way, Bill arrived from Brazil a few days ago and will take Shadi back to Korea with him for a few weeks, but she'll return in mid-April ! My middle sister, Jeanie, will "Bobwatch" next week and I'll take my spring break the following week, and then Shadi will be back (or Bob and I will be heading to Korea after her. HA!) Time is flying.

Well, I'd better get back on task. Take care, dear friends. Thanks for keeping us in prayer. Pray for Bob's full recovery and especially for the return of his speech and language! He needs practice so please call him or visit!

Much love,

Sharon

See Bob Walk! See Bob Be Extraordinary!

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Dear Friends,
I wanted you to see the extraordinary progress Bob has made over the last few months. Bob's angels, Lisa, Rachelle, Cynthia, and Shadi help his neurons click, fire, and find new pathways every day, and because of them and Bob's commitment to recover, he's made big gains over the year. Click on the smilebox to start and wait for it to load. Thank you for keeping us in your prayers. We need EVERY single one of them. Take care!

Warmly,

Sharon

The January - March Miracles of Bob and Sharon

Dear Friends and Family,

January and February weren't total busts and Bob is quickly on the rebound. Let's recount Bob's  miracles:

1. In January, Cathy and Josh came home. Bob really enjoyed visiting with Cath and I loved Josh taking care of me and the house while I stayed at the hospital.
2. Bob was so ON during his admission to the hospital. He answered all of the doctors questions himself. I was in awe of his alertness and his passion to make sure he understood and they understood him. It was amazing to watch him engage again. He followed their directions and seemed to be able to do all of the neuro tests. As challenging as it was, he communicated with the hospital staff. Whoo-hoo!
3. Bob seemed to regress (speech, language, motor) but thank goodness, it was short-lived!
4. Bob is back to his daily exercise routine of walking and range of motion (which he does not love, let me assure you but is a way of life).
5. Bob is reading a novel with Shadi (she reads aloud everyday) but guess what? Now they are doing paired reading and he reads a page aloud to her and then she reads a few pages. It's wonderful to see and he's pretty proud of himself (although he said "I'm still not conversational." Pretty good, huh? His speech therapist, Cynthia, continues to be amazed by his progress.
6. Bob will be fitted with his Walk-aide tomorrow (an computerized electronic device that sends electrical impulses  to his leg and foot so that he will walk without drop foot). Our insurance denied this device saying that it is too "experimental" although it's what the Olympic and professional athletes use for rehab. So we say a special thank you to the Shadi and Bill Letson Foundation for donating this lovely tool to Bob.
7. Bob is walking on the treadmill at therapy. His new, wonderful PT, Lisa Z., puts him in special  harness hooked to the ceiling, and he walks at 3 mph for three minute intervals. Pretty amazing.
8. Bob attended Gaby C.s (one of his doctoral student's) dissertation defense in March. Bob was so happy to see his friends Mary T. (in the photo) and Dr. Tom Harvey. We scripted a few questions and Bob practiced and practiced and practiced and asked questions. We were so proud and when I asked him how he felt, he told us, and I quote, "I was hot!" And he was, too!
9. Bob is able to go up and down the stairs pretty efficiently now, but when Shadi first arrived, I asked him to stay upstairs until she got up (because he was still on that medication that made him wibbly-wobbly). One morning, she yelled to me as I was heading out the door to work and when I got to her room, Bob was in her bed (with his shoes on) and he had told her that he would wait there with her until she got up to go downstairs. So that's the photo you see. It's not me.
10. Bob is graciously dealing with the reality that his recovery will be, in his words, "a long time coming and therapy is laborious". He has good days, great days, and hard days but he handles them with grace. He wants two things desperately: to be able to speak fluently again and to be able to drive. So we are working on speech and language - Shadi makes all of us insist that he must speak and that he must do so in complete sentences.
Well, enough for now. I'll try to stay more current. Thank you to all of you for your continued prayers, cards, and words of encouragement. They mean a lot to us!

From the depths of our hearts, we remain yours,
Sharon

We're Back!

Dear Friends,

So sorry that I haven’t written since Bob’s surgery but January and February were very difficult months for us. As y’all know, Bob’s surgery went well and he seemed to be recovering without hitch when  he had a localized seizure. The ER docs put Bob on an anti-convulsant which had the side effect of depressing his brain’s cognitive, language, and motor functionality. So for the past month, Bob had extreme difficulty generating any kind of responses outside of “yes or no”, he couldn’t get out of the “thick fog” the meds put around his brain, and he wasn’t able to generate phrases or sentences. His spirit was so sad and he was terribly depressed (another side effect). Everyday, he would shake his head, as if he was trying to clear it, and ask me, “What’s wrong with me?” All of this ALMOST sent me over the edge and I, too, was sad and frantic.

But we have good news! The angels do look after us. After a few phone Skype conversations, my twin hopped on the next jet out of Seoul (yes, Korea) and moved back into our lives and my, oh, my, changes have occurred! We’re doing much better now.

First, Shadi insisted that we take Bob to Dr. B. (his original stroke/rehab doc) and Dr. B seemed to think that Bob’s seizure was the result of medications (anesthesia) and not the stroke or surgery. So, the good news is that Bob is now OFF the anti-convulsant  and WHOO-HOO! My old Bob is back! He’s talking more and generating sentences and phrases again AND we’re having little conversations again. (He even called me a “pain in the b--- “ the other night.)

Shadi will live with us until June 30 when I’ll have finished my 30 years in public education and will be able to focus my life on Bob. (THANK YOU, Dr. Bill Letson for sharing your wife and Shadi for sharing your life! We love you and owe you! There’s nothing like family!) I'm not sure that I know how to retire fully so our hope is that I will be able to work part-time to cover insurance and yet spend most of my time helping Bob fully recover. We may be asking for a little help from our friends. HA! 

Bob is on a tight schedule of OT, PT, and speech at rehab and home and he’s showing incremental improvements especially in PT and OT daily. Speech is still a challenge but he amazes us every day!. Lisa, his PT, has Bob on a treadmill (yes, treadmill) and Rachelle is working hard to activate his arm. One of his daily exercises is to put his arm around me daily. I like that!

More later. Much love to all!

Warmly,

Sharon