
Hi Everyone,
Just a quick and wonderful Bob-ism from Josh: Today, after dropping my mom off to fly back to Seoul, I stopped by the center for my daily dose of Uncle Bob. Uncle Jeff met me there and we all gathered on Bob's courtyard for an afternoon salon. I showed Bob the draft of my dissertation that I recently defended as well as the place where I thank him for all the support he's given me and we had quite an emotional moment. After all those feelings we decided it was time to eat! (It was a guilt free dinner because I always say that nothing burns calories like expressing feelings.)
Bob indicated that he wanted to go on a walk and we all made our way after his lead. He's been doing such an incredible job in PT that once we got him in the wheelchair he was able to wheel himself in our slow caravan. As auntie Shadoan carried his food out to him, hospital staff kept stopping to ask her where she was taking the food. This is because, as everyone knows, hospital food is delicious and there's been a recent and wild epidemic of middle aged asian women breaking into rehab units and stealing the patient's meals. Once she convinced the staff that she was not, in fact, part of this vast food stealing conspiracy, Sharon was able to join Jeff, Bob and I in the garden.
While we were waiting for Shadoan to get to us, Jeff and I were trying to get Bob to tell us who was cooler and better looking. Well, obviously we weren't doing that because there's no contest, but we were messing around with him and Jeff asked, "Hey, how's the food here, Bob, is it pretty good?"
Uncle Bob took a long pause, and then started to work to form a word, "oooo"... "oooor".... "hoooor"...
"That's right, Bob, you can do it," we said, and out it came: "Horrible."
We both burst into laughter because THAT's the Bob we know and love! I quickly followed up with, "Well, sure the food's only ok, but how's the wine selection."
Bob laughed again and said, wryly - and with a little bit of ease - "Horrible."
So we know one thing for sure: the food and wine selection at the hospital may not be great (despite the thieving of those gangs of asian lady food stealers mentioned above) but something is working cause every day I see my Uncle coming back and it is such a gift and joy.
Much love,
Nephew Josh
Dear Bob and Sharon,
ReplyDeleteOk, I confess -- I'm the Asian Hospital Food Snatcher. There's nothing like faux-meatless tofu boeuf bourginoun (without the burgundy) and I crave it. What with our confusing the hospital staff with our twinness, they mistook you for the food thief.
I'm home in Seoul. It's cold and rainy and dark so I can't see all the azaleas and fruit trees and magnolias and lilacs that Bill says are in bloom. I miss you all but I'll return soon.
It was so good to read Joshua's recap of his day with Uncle Bob. There's nothing like having Jeff, Josh, and Bob hanging around together -- usually it's around the barbeque, so I can't wait for those days to come soon.
Be well, Sharon and Bob. I'll check in frequently and I'll call Mommy and Daddy to check up on them, too. I love you --
Shadi
Thank you Josh!
ReplyDeleteTerry Taco
Hello Sharon and Bob -
ReplyDeleteI also just found out about your newest challenge and am sending thoughts and prayers your way. (Thanks for the blog, a wonderful reminder that none of us should take ANTHING for granted.)
I am also celebrating each miracle and praying for more. Patience is a wonderful thing...when you can muster it. I'll keep you and your army of well-wishers and good deed doers in my thoughts. Give Bob a hug.
Sharon Morgan
Anything new going on? I'm sure he is just leaping and bounding all over the place.
ReplyDeleteWe are praying really hard and thinking of you constantly.
Love you both
Suzie and Doug
Hello Bob and Sharon! I am one lucky lady! I got to spend this afternoon playing Old Maid with Josh and Sharon then got to go to the garden and play catch with Bob and Sharon. I have decided that is why I do not have a Dr. in front of my name. I played too many card games and should have read more! I am going to take advantage of the fact that there is something in this world that I know about and Sharon does not. I think I will go tomorrow and play slapjack with Bob. Too bad I don't know poker....I would have a good time with that! Bob you did GREAT playing catch with Sharon and I! Wow! I was amazed at how far you have come. Bob you also did a great job finishing Sharon's sentences. It must be fun for you that she stops talking long enough to let you finish! I will be back on Tuesday for more fun if you will have me. What a great time I had! Keep up the great work Bob and Sharon! You are doing fabulous! Thanks Josh for the fun playing Old Maid! Hope your workout was good! Patti
ReplyDeleteSharon M-How are you! Thanks for your kind words! So . . . I'm learning the hard lesson but I will NOT take it for granted when I get the Bob back!.
ReplyDeletePatti-Thanks for making time to play catch with Bob and making sure that I take care of myself. I'll do better.